It early Sunday morning Aug 09, 2009, wake early morning.
Prepared mine special Ginger + cardamom Tea....hmmmmm.
Nice weather outside, popup a thought ....'Togetherness' ...interesting rite...
Togetherness...
What a beautiful word!!
A word that brings to mind a sense of security, pleasure and warmth.
Being together....
That is how we were meant to be.
A group of different people or objects put together becomes strong, solid and noticeable.
A flower by itself is beautiful but combined with other flowers and ferns it becomes a bouquet......a decoration, a gift and an expression of good wishes.
A tree provides blossom, fruit and shade, but a collection of them becomes a forest....impregnable and a habitat for wildlife.
A hill looks grand and solid but a number of them put together become a range....insurmountable and a protective wall against the forces of nature.
A star twinkles and guides travelers during the night, but a multitude of them forms a galaxy....magnificent and awesome.
A house is an abode but many houses set together in a planned and homogenized way becomes a colony...secure and lively.
A person is an individual, important and special, but living together with their kin they become a family...close, bonded and fulfilled.
Certainly togetherness is power......
The power to free from loneliness, fear and worry.
But togetherness does not mean cramping.
It means being in harmony with each other, so that each component flourishes and grows to it’s full potential with encouragement from the others, without being overshadowed and stunted due to infringement of space!
WOW .....ISN'T Nice We all shared BOND OF TOGETHERNESS ....
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Sunday, August 2, 2009
~ Tribute to friendship day ~
A friend is somebody
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right...
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right...
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
Friday, May 15, 2009
~~ Simple Joys of life ~~
Ever wondered about those simple pleasures of life that you probably didn’t give much importance to, but contributed to making the experience of your life pleasant and wonderful?
Ever realized how sometimes, very trivial and at times, even funny, experiences or probably some routine things you do, turn out to be that which uplifts your mind and soul from the problems and worries of daily life?
Today I thought of listing some of those experiences that were important to me – the simple joys of my life....
1.Rain and all of its associated sensations.
2.Chocolate Strawberry Icecream. I love the texture of icecream, and chocolate is my fav flavour.
3.Watching TV till late on a Friday night…Its my way of rebellion :) to compensate for the days I reluctantly drag myself into bed cos I have to go early to office.
4.Going for long walks with a dear friend.
5.Taking a cool, refreshing bath after a long day.
6.Discovering money (that’s been forgotten) in an old purse/jeans pocket. Ah! It makes me feel so rich in a moment :) …and sometimes, I purposely stash away some money somewhere for that experience of finding a treasure :)
7.Solving a particularly difficult puzzle. To this day, I feel the same thrill when I solve a complex problem at work, or as I used to feel when I was solving math (mainly algebra) problems in school. Its wonderful.
8.Going through old photo albums. Photo albums are the only way of holding time still. Which is why I like photography – because I think it is a way of bringing time to a stop and getting a slice of life in a picture…
uh..list will keep going on..will continue someother time :)
Ever realized how sometimes, very trivial and at times, even funny, experiences or probably some routine things you do, turn out to be that which uplifts your mind and soul from the problems and worries of daily life?
Today I thought of listing some of those experiences that were important to me – the simple joys of my life....
1.Rain and all of its associated sensations.
2.Chocolate Strawberry Icecream. I love the texture of icecream, and chocolate is my fav flavour.
3.Watching TV till late on a Friday night…Its my way of rebellion :) to compensate for the days I reluctantly drag myself into bed cos I have to go early to office.
4.Going for long walks with a dear friend.
5.Taking a cool, refreshing bath after a long day.
6.Discovering money (that’s been forgotten) in an old purse/jeans pocket. Ah! It makes me feel so rich in a moment :) …and sometimes, I purposely stash away some money somewhere for that experience of finding a treasure :)
7.Solving a particularly difficult puzzle. To this day, I feel the same thrill when I solve a complex problem at work, or as I used to feel when I was solving math (mainly algebra) problems in school. Its wonderful.
8.Going through old photo albums. Photo albums are the only way of holding time still. Which is why I like photography – because I think it is a way of bringing time to a stop and getting a slice of life in a picture…
uh..list will keep going on..will continue someother time :)
Monday, May 4, 2009
~ Life A Game of Chess ~~
I spent a little part my long drive thinking about the analogy between LIFE and CHESS.
I know, sounds little weired but it turned out to be interesting exercise.
I am trying to recollect my images into words ..:)
now i come up with some analogy like this:
** GOALS [ planning future] : long term life goal- key to survival so no point of playing the game without this.Before you decide to make a move, think a few steps ahead. Ask “what if …?” and try to anticipate the possible outcomes of your actions.Don’t aimlessly push your pawns without a plan. In life, this is the foundation of all planning exercises.
**ADAPTION: Darwins theory: "adaption is most important for any survival".
This requires an open mind and the willingness to adapt to changes.
**SACRIFICES: Sometimes you need to give up some of your smaller assets to achieve bigger milestones later in the game.
**TEMPTATION: this reminds me of "chocalates":) too temptating rite...Your Dark Side always try to tempt you for small offers which can ruin the game for you, don't fall for these..keep in mind Always be focussed on your long term objectives.
**POSITIVE OUTLOOK: always pplay the game with positive frame of mind and play to conquror the dark side.if you can define the pace of the game you will always in control of it.
**ACTIVE LEARNING: famous quote it reminds me:"your enemy is your greatest teacher" ..
Each step to overcome your dark side, your are active learner.Never assume you know everything.you need to remember that there is always someone better than you and you should always be trying to improve.
I might have missed lot more ....will cont if i find more in mine thoughts...enjoy life fullest, always keep positive outlook, you will succeed surely.
I know, sounds little weired but it turned out to be interesting exercise.
I am trying to recollect my images into words ..:)
now i come up with some analogy like this:
** GOALS [ planning future] : long term life goal- key to survival so no point of playing the game without this.Before you decide to make a move, think a few steps ahead. Ask “what if …?” and try to anticipate the possible outcomes of your actions.Don’t aimlessly push your pawns without a plan. In life, this is the foundation of all planning exercises.
**ADAPTION: Darwins theory: "adaption is most important for any survival".
This requires an open mind and the willingness to adapt to changes.
**SACRIFICES: Sometimes you need to give up some of your smaller assets to achieve bigger milestones later in the game.
**TEMPTATION: this reminds me of "chocalates":) too temptating rite...Your Dark Side always try to tempt you for small offers which can ruin the game for you, don't fall for these..keep in mind Always be focussed on your long term objectives.
**POSITIVE OUTLOOK: always pplay the game with positive frame of mind and play to conquror the dark side.if you can define the pace of the game you will always in control of it.
**ACTIVE LEARNING: famous quote it reminds me:"your enemy is your greatest teacher" ..
Each step to overcome your dark side, your are active learner.Never assume you know everything.you need to remember that there is always someone better than you and you should always be trying to improve.
I might have missed lot more ....will cont if i find more in mine thoughts...enjoy life fullest, always keep positive outlook, you will succeed surely.
Monday, April 20, 2009
~~ Ultimate in Romance ~~
Just wondering "whats ultimate romance means to you??"
* Candle lite dinner
* Long Drive
* Walking on beach bearfooted...
* Long talks
list will keep going, everyone has its own taste of romance.
i will try to describe in general....
"The most romantic gesture is when a woman/man notices his/her partner is uncomfortable in a crowded room and without uttering a word he/she goes across and puts his arm around her. Not a single word spoken, but everything said by that gesture..."
i thing, if someone can understand this, you do'nt have to worry for rest of your life...:)
* Candle lite dinner
* Long Drive
* Walking on beach bearfooted...
* Long talks
list will keep going, everyone has its own taste of romance.
i will try to describe in general....
"The most romantic gesture is when a woman/man notices his/her partner is uncomfortable in a crowded room and without uttering a word he/she goes across and puts his arm around her. Not a single word spoken, but everything said by that gesture..."
i thing, if someone can understand this, you do'nt have to worry for rest of your life...:)
Monday, April 13, 2009
~~ 21 truth of life [life phases] ~~
how many do you follow ..??? ;)
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live Life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'God bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live Life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'God bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
~~ Cute sweet luv story ~~~
I just encounter an luv which touches the heart.
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully...
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully...
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