What is Cross Site Scripting?
when a web application gathers malicious data from a user.
If for example I was logged in as "john" and read a message by "joe" that contained malicious javascript in it, then it may be possible for "joe" to hijack my session just by reading his bulletin board post.
What are the threats of Cross Site Scripting?
Often attackers will inject JavaScript, VBScript, ActiveX, HTML, or Flash into a vulnerable application to fool a user (Read below for further details) in order to gather data from them.
No more explanation, it is enough with cross site scripting...i'm bored with
CSS vuln ;)
http://www.phpnuke.org/user.php?op=userinfo&uname=
What can I do to protect myself as a vendor?
Never trust user input and always filter metacharacters. This will eliminate the majority of XSS attacks. Converting < and > to < and > is also suggested when it comes to script output. ...URL ENCODE
http://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&q=cache%3AoIngv17_LjoJ%3Awww.securitydocs.com%2Fpdf%2F3261.PDF+XSS+holes&hl=en&gl=us&sig=AHIEtbSgMZAYvHGxJVZ-eG5nRo539cvXpA&pli=1
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
~~ How to Enable Java inside PHP OR Vice Versa ~~
I was wondering how we can interact PHP Within JAVA OR JAVA Within the PHP.
Here i find it easy way.
1. How to Call JAVA Inside the PHP.
**Change php.ini with enabling java options.
Example: getProperty('java.version') . ''; echo 'Java vendor=' . $system-getProperty('java.vendor') . ''; echo 'OS=' . $system->getProperty('os.name') . ' ' . $system-getProperty('os.version') . ' on ' . $system->getProperty('os.arch') . ' '; // java.util.Date example $formatter = new Java('java.text.SimpleDateFormat', "EEEE, MMMM dd, yyyy 'at' h:mm:ss a zzzz"); echo $formatter->format(new Java('java.util.Date')); ?>
2. How to Call PHP Inside the JAVA
SAPI module that interfaces with the Servlet server, the latter by this Java extension.
The Java extension provides a simple and effective means for creating and invoking methods on Java objects from PHP. The JVM is created using JNI, and everything runs in-process.
Here i find it easy way.
1. How to Call JAVA Inside the PHP.
**Change php.ini with enabling java options.
Example: getProperty('java.version') . ''; echo 'Java vendor=' . $system-getProperty('java.vendor') . ''; echo 'OS=' . $system->getProperty('os.name') . ' ' . $system-getProperty('os.version') . ' on ' . $system->getProperty('os.arch') . ' '; // java.util.Date example $formatter = new Java('java.text.SimpleDateFormat', "EEEE, MMMM dd, yyyy 'at' h:mm:ss a zzzz"); echo $formatter->format(new Java('java.util.Date')); ?>
2. How to Call PHP Inside the JAVA
SAPI module that interfaces with the Servlet server, the latter by this Java extension.
The Java extension provides a simple and effective means for creating and invoking methods on Java objects from PHP. The JVM is created using JNI, and everything runs in-process.
~~ PHP ~~
What are the features and advantages of OBJECT ORIENTED PROGRAMMING[OOPS]?
Answers1. objects can easily be modified and added to a system there by reducing maintenance costs.
2. Better Modelling Techniques for real world examples than procedure.
What are the difference between abstract class and interface?
AnswersAbstract class: abstract classes are the class where one or more methods are abstract but not necessarily all method has to be abstract. Abstract methods are the methods, which are declare in its class but not define.
nterface: Interfaces are one type of class where all the methods are abstract. That means all the methods only declared but not defined. All the methods must be define by its implemented class.
What are the advantages of stored procedures, triggers, indexes?
AnswersA stored procedure is a set of SQL commands that can be compiled and stored in the server. Once this has been done, clients don't need to keep re-issuing the entire query but can refer to the stored procedure. This provides better overall performance because the query has to be parsed only once, and less information needs to be sent between the server and the client. You can also raise the conceptual level by having libraries of functions in the server. However, stored procedures of course do increase the load on the database server system, as more of the work is done on the server side and less on the client (application) side.
A trigger is effectively a type of stored procedure, one that is invoked when a particular event occurs.
Indexes are used to find rows with specific column values quickly.
Answers1. objects can easily be modified and added to a system there by reducing maintenance costs.
2. Better Modelling Techniques for real world examples than procedure.
What are the difference between abstract class and interface?
AnswersAbstract class: abstract classes are the class where one or more methods are abstract but not necessarily all method has to be abstract. Abstract methods are the methods, which are declare in its class but not define.
nterface: Interfaces are one type of class where all the methods are abstract. That means all the methods only declared but not defined. All the methods must be define by its implemented class.
What are the advantages of stored procedures, triggers, indexes?
AnswersA stored procedure is a set of SQL commands that can be compiled and stored in the server. Once this has been done, clients don't need to keep re-issuing the entire query but can refer to the stored procedure. This provides better overall performance because the query has to be parsed only once, and less information needs to be sent between the server and the client. You can also raise the conceptual level by having libraries of functions in the server. However, stored procedures of course do increase the load on the database server system, as more of the work is done on the server side and less on the client (application) side.
A trigger is effectively a type of stored procedure, one that is invoked when a particular event occurs.
Indexes are used to find rows with specific column values quickly.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
~~ Web Artitecture Stack ~~
Web artitecture stack consists of :
1.MYSQL/ATOMICS/SQL SERVERS
2.TOMCAT
3.APACHE
4.FIRST REQUEST
5.TALEND/MULE/->SOLR -> FOR ETL PROCESSES [EXTRACT TRANSFORM LOAD]
** SOLR:Solr is the popular, blazing fast open source enterprise search platform from the Apache Lucene project. Its major features include powerful full-text search, hit highlighting, faceted search, dynamic clustering, database integration, and rich document (e.g., Word, PDF) handling. Solr is highly scalable, providing distributed search and index replication, and it powers the search and navigation features of many of the world's largest internet sites.
Solr is written in Java and runs as a standalone full-text search server within a servlet container such as Tomcat. Solr uses the Lucene Java search library at its core for full-text indexing and search, and has REST-like HTTP/XML and JSON APIs that make it easy to use from virtually any programming language. Solr's powerful external configuration allows it to be tailored to almost any type of application without Java coding, and it has an extensive plugin architecture when more advanced customization is required.
1.MYSQL/ATOMICS/SQL SERVERS
2.TOMCAT
3.APACHE
4.FIRST REQUEST
5.TALEND/MULE/->SOLR -> FOR ETL PROCESSES [EXTRACT TRANSFORM LOAD]
** SOLR:Solr is the popular, blazing fast open source enterprise search platform from the Apache Lucene project. Its major features include powerful full-text search, hit highlighting, faceted search, dynamic clustering, database integration, and rich document (e.g., Word, PDF) handling. Solr is highly scalable, providing distributed search and index replication, and it powers the search and navigation features of many of the world's largest internet sites.
Solr is written in Java and runs as a standalone full-text search server within a servlet container such as Tomcat. Solr uses the Lucene Java search library at its core for full-text indexing and search, and has REST-like HTTP/XML and JSON APIs that make it easy to use from virtually any programming language. Solr's powerful external configuration allows it to be tailored to almost any type of application without Java coding, and it has an extensive plugin architecture when more advanced customization is required.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
~~ APC vs Memcache ~~
APC: Alternative PHP Cache:Its goal is to provide a free, open, and robust framework for caching and optimizing PHP intermediate code.
To avoid the overhead of parsing and compiling the code every time pages are loaded.
** This is no distributed cache
Memcache: is a general-purpose distributed memory caching system.
It is often used to speed up dynamic database-driven websites by caching data and objects in memory to reduce the number of times an external data source.
Memcached's APIs provide a giant hash table distributed across multiple machines. When the table is full, subsequent inserts cause older data to be purged in least recently used (LRU) order.
To avoid the overhead of parsing and compiling the code every time pages are loaded.
** This is no distributed cache
Memcache: is a general-purpose distributed memory caching system.
It is often used to speed up dynamic database-driven websites by caching data and objects in memory to reduce the number of times an external data source.
Memcached's APIs provide a giant hash table distributed across multiple machines. When the table is full, subsequent inserts cause older data to be purged in least recently used (LRU) order.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
~~ SEO-Search Engine Optimisation ~~
SEO: Search Engine Optimisation
Process of improving the volume or quality of traffic to a web site.
Ex. Better Keywords, Meta Descriptions, Href Tags with Titles ...etc.
Process of improving the volume or quality of traffic to a web site.
Ex. Better Keywords, Meta Descriptions, Href Tags with Titles ...etc.
~~ Technologies to Know~~
Try to refresh myself from the keywords of some of technologies which
we use in day to day life.
MYSQL
1. DDL : Data Defination Language -statements are used to build and modify the structure of your tables and other objects in the database. Eg. CREATE/ DROP/ ADD COLUMN
2. DML: Data Manipulation Language- statements are used to work with the data in tables.Eg.
SELECT/INSERT/UPDATE/DELETE.
3.INDEXES: The main purpose of the index is to find rows quickly – without scanning whole
data set.Eg. BTREE:it allows to retrieve data in sorted form.
4. INNODB VS MYISAM:
InnoDB: we usually see clustering by primary key, caching data, higher concurrency.
5.Normalization is usually thought of as a process of applying a set of rules to your database design, mostly to achieve minimum redundancy in the data.
1NF/2NF/3NF.
ER model diagram: Entity Relational Diagrams:graphic that illustrates the interrelationships between entities in a database.
UML:Unified Modeling Language:UML offers a standard way to visualize a system's architectural blueprints.
SOLR/LUCENE
OOPS
PHP
AJAX:Asychorounsly Javascript and XML
we use in day to day life.
MYSQL
1. DDL : Data Defination Language -statements are used to build and modify the structure of your tables and other objects in the database. Eg. CREATE/ DROP/ ADD COLUMN
2. DML: Data Manipulation Language- statements are used to work with the data in tables.Eg.
SELECT/INSERT/UPDATE/DELETE.
3.INDEXES: The main purpose of the index is to find rows quickly – without scanning whole
data set.Eg. BTREE:it allows to retrieve data in sorted form.
4. INNODB VS MYISAM:
InnoDB: we usually see clustering by primary key, caching data, higher concurrency.
5.Normalization is usually thought of as a process of applying a set of rules to your database design, mostly to achieve minimum redundancy in the data.
1NF/2NF/3NF.
ER model diagram: Entity Relational Diagrams:graphic that illustrates the interrelationships between entities in a database.
UML:Unified Modeling Language:UML offers a standard way to visualize a system's architectural blueprints.
SOLR/LUCENE
OOPS
PHP
AJAX:Asychorounsly Javascript and XML
Saturday, October 10, 2009
~~ Dream comes true - - -Mine Actung Baby {BMW} ~~
What do dreams mean? Is there a reason for them? ...
Dreams can be funny – they can be sad. They can be scary – but also very happy..
Like Others, I too..dream of lot of things in mine life....one of them was
getting BMW...mine ACHTUNG BABY...
I still remember, when i was kid, playing with mine friends, one of them, have
automatic controlled cars ---yah of course toy car but was BMW model.
he was teasing me n mine friend about that car, and at that moment i told mine
friend, that one day i will going to ride it..in REAL.
I was kid at that time, didn't know that it was really going to be hard to get
mine dream fulfilled...it was Damn expensive ....
But still, something somewhere in mine heart, always is there..."TO OWN THIS
BEATIFULLLLLLLL BABY..'n' ride it."
I thanked GOD, that after almost 20 yrs, he granted mine wish ...and now i owned the DREAM MACHINE ..KILLER ...MINE OWN ACHTUNG BABY..:)

I day i stepped in, it was reallllllllly the most beautiful feeling i got after so
many year...that i have achieved something, which i never thought of completing
so quickly....THANK YOU GOD....
I will never going to forget this day...in mine life.
THE FEELINGS OF DREAMS COMES TRUE, REALLY CAN'T EXPRESS IN WORDS>>>>
KEEP DREAMING....MORE AND MORE... YOU SURLY GET THOSE DONE>>SOMETIME IN YOUR
LIFE...
AT LAST ...THANKING GOD...WATEVER HE DOES...HE DO IT FOR PURPOSE ...:)
Dreams can be funny – they can be sad. They can be scary – but also very happy..
Like Others, I too..dream of lot of things in mine life....one of them was
getting BMW...mine ACHTUNG BABY...
I still remember, when i was kid, playing with mine friends, one of them, have
automatic controlled cars ---yah of course toy car but was BMW model.
he was teasing me n mine friend about that car, and at that moment i told mine
friend, that one day i will going to ride it..in REAL.
I was kid at that time, didn't know that it was really going to be hard to get
mine dream fulfilled...it was Damn expensive ....
But still, something somewhere in mine heart, always is there..."TO OWN THIS
BEATIFULLLLLLLL BABY..'n' ride it."
I thanked GOD, that after almost 20 yrs, he granted mine wish ...and now i owned the DREAM MACHINE ..KILLER ...MINE OWN ACHTUNG BABY..:)
I day i stepped in, it was reallllllllly the most beautiful feeling i got after so
many year...that i have achieved something, which i never thought of completing
so quickly....THANK YOU GOD....
I will never going to forget this day...in mine life.
THE FEELINGS OF DREAMS COMES TRUE, REALLY CAN'T EXPRESS IN WORDS>>>>
KEEP DREAMING....MORE AND MORE... YOU SURLY GET THOSE DONE>>SOMETIME IN YOUR
LIFE...
AT LAST ...THANKING GOD...WATEVER HE DOES...HE DO IT FOR PURPOSE ...:)
Thursday, September 17, 2009
~ Power of the Mind ~
Two aspects of human life-
Materialism(relates to physical body)
Spirituality(inner soul)
spirituality is the only thing that makes an individual centred and indulge in activities that result in the awakening of the soul.
Our mind, which helps or rather guides us, is the most important deciding factor in our lives. Be it greed, attachment, material pursuits or ego, it’s all in the mind.
Man generally engages his time and effort in satisfying his physical requirements. But it’s the mind that can propel individuals towards fulfilling their innate spiritual requirements.
Here is thing:
Our lives are very short and we try to get the best in this one life. It depends on the individual what goals he’s looking to achieve...
Is he looking for inner soul or outer world ???
What are you looking at ???
Materialism(relates to physical body)
Spirituality(inner soul)
spirituality is the only thing that makes an individual centred and indulge in activities that result in the awakening of the soul.
Our mind, which helps or rather guides us, is the most important deciding factor in our lives. Be it greed, attachment, material pursuits or ego, it’s all in the mind.
Man generally engages his time and effort in satisfying his physical requirements. But it’s the mind that can propel individuals towards fulfilling their innate spiritual requirements.
Here is thing:
Our lives are very short and we try to get the best in this one life. It depends on the individual what goals he’s looking to achieve...
Is he looking for inner soul or outer world ???
What are you looking at ???
Sunday, August 9, 2009
~ Togetherness ~
It early Sunday morning Aug 09, 2009, wake early morning.
Prepared mine special Ginger + cardamom Tea....hmmmmm.
Nice weather outside, popup a thought ....'Togetherness' ...interesting rite...
Togetherness...
What a beautiful word!!
A word that brings to mind a sense of security, pleasure and warmth.
Being together....
That is how we were meant to be.
A group of different people or objects put together becomes strong, solid and noticeable.
A flower by itself is beautiful but combined with other flowers and ferns it becomes a bouquet......a decoration, a gift and an expression of good wishes.
A tree provides blossom, fruit and shade, but a collection of them becomes a forest....impregnable and a habitat for wildlife.
A hill looks grand and solid but a number of them put together become a range....insurmountable and a protective wall against the forces of nature.
A star twinkles and guides travelers during the night, but a multitude of them forms a galaxy....magnificent and awesome.
A house is an abode but many houses set together in a planned and homogenized way becomes a colony...secure and lively.
A person is an individual, important and special, but living together with their kin they become a family...close, bonded and fulfilled.
Certainly togetherness is power......
The power to free from loneliness, fear and worry.
But togetherness does not mean cramping.
It means being in harmony with each other, so that each component flourishes and grows to it’s full potential with encouragement from the others, without being overshadowed and stunted due to infringement of space!
WOW .....ISN'T Nice We all shared BOND OF TOGETHERNESS ....
Prepared mine special Ginger + cardamom Tea....hmmmmm.
Nice weather outside, popup a thought ....'Togetherness' ...interesting rite...
Togetherness...
What a beautiful word!!
A word that brings to mind a sense of security, pleasure and warmth.
Being together....
That is how we were meant to be.
A group of different people or objects put together becomes strong, solid and noticeable.
A flower by itself is beautiful but combined with other flowers and ferns it becomes a bouquet......a decoration, a gift and an expression of good wishes.
A tree provides blossom, fruit and shade, but a collection of them becomes a forest....impregnable and a habitat for wildlife.
A hill looks grand and solid but a number of them put together become a range....insurmountable and a protective wall against the forces of nature.
A star twinkles and guides travelers during the night, but a multitude of them forms a galaxy....magnificent and awesome.
A house is an abode but many houses set together in a planned and homogenized way becomes a colony...secure and lively.
A person is an individual, important and special, but living together with their kin they become a family...close, bonded and fulfilled.
Certainly togetherness is power......
The power to free from loneliness, fear and worry.
But togetherness does not mean cramping.
It means being in harmony with each other, so that each component flourishes and grows to it’s full potential with encouragement from the others, without being overshadowed and stunted due to infringement of space!
WOW .....ISN'T Nice We all shared BOND OF TOGETHERNESS ....
Sunday, August 2, 2009
~ Tribute to friendship day ~
A friend is somebody
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right...
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right...
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
Friday, May 15, 2009
~~ Simple Joys of life ~~
Ever wondered about those simple pleasures of life that you probably didn’t give much importance to, but contributed to making the experience of your life pleasant and wonderful?
Ever realized how sometimes, very trivial and at times, even funny, experiences or probably some routine things you do, turn out to be that which uplifts your mind and soul from the problems and worries of daily life?
Today I thought of listing some of those experiences that were important to me – the simple joys of my life....
1.Rain and all of its associated sensations.
2.Chocolate Strawberry Icecream. I love the texture of icecream, and chocolate is my fav flavour.
3.Watching TV till late on a Friday night…Its my way of rebellion :) to compensate for the days I reluctantly drag myself into bed cos I have to go early to office.
4.Going for long walks with a dear friend.
5.Taking a cool, refreshing bath after a long day.
6.Discovering money (that’s been forgotten) in an old purse/jeans pocket. Ah! It makes me feel so rich in a moment :) …and sometimes, I purposely stash away some money somewhere for that experience of finding a treasure :)
7.Solving a particularly difficult puzzle. To this day, I feel the same thrill when I solve a complex problem at work, or as I used to feel when I was solving math (mainly algebra) problems in school. Its wonderful.
8.Going through old photo albums. Photo albums are the only way of holding time still. Which is why I like photography – because I think it is a way of bringing time to a stop and getting a slice of life in a picture…
uh..list will keep going on..will continue someother time :)
Ever realized how sometimes, very trivial and at times, even funny, experiences or probably some routine things you do, turn out to be that which uplifts your mind and soul from the problems and worries of daily life?
Today I thought of listing some of those experiences that were important to me – the simple joys of my life....
1.Rain and all of its associated sensations.
2.Chocolate Strawberry Icecream. I love the texture of icecream, and chocolate is my fav flavour.
3.Watching TV till late on a Friday night…Its my way of rebellion :) to compensate for the days I reluctantly drag myself into bed cos I have to go early to office.
4.Going for long walks with a dear friend.
5.Taking a cool, refreshing bath after a long day.
6.Discovering money (that’s been forgotten) in an old purse/jeans pocket. Ah! It makes me feel so rich in a moment :) …and sometimes, I purposely stash away some money somewhere for that experience of finding a treasure :)
7.Solving a particularly difficult puzzle. To this day, I feel the same thrill when I solve a complex problem at work, or as I used to feel when I was solving math (mainly algebra) problems in school. Its wonderful.
8.Going through old photo albums. Photo albums are the only way of holding time still. Which is why I like photography – because I think it is a way of bringing time to a stop and getting a slice of life in a picture…
uh..list will keep going on..will continue someother time :)
Monday, May 4, 2009
~ Life A Game of Chess ~~
I spent a little part my long drive thinking about the analogy between LIFE and CHESS.
I know, sounds little weired but it turned out to be interesting exercise.
I am trying to recollect my images into words ..:)

now i come up with some analogy like this:
** GOALS [ planning future] : long term life goal- key to survival so no point of playing the game without this.Before you decide to make a move, think a few steps ahead. Ask “what if …?” and try to anticipate the possible outcomes of your actions.Don’t aimlessly push your pawns without a plan. In life, this is the foundation of all planning exercises.
**ADAPTION: Darwins theory: "adaption is most important for any survival".
This requires an open mind and the willingness to adapt to changes.
**SACRIFICES: Sometimes you need to give up some of your smaller assets to achieve bigger milestones later in the game.
**TEMPTATION: this reminds me of "chocalates":) too temptating rite...Your Dark Side always try to tempt you for small offers which can ruin the game for you, don't fall for these..keep in mind Always be focussed on your long term objectives.
**POSITIVE OUTLOOK: always pplay the game with positive frame of mind and play to conquror the dark side.if you can define the pace of the game you will always in control of it.
**ACTIVE LEARNING: famous quote it reminds me:"your enemy is your greatest teacher" ..
Each step to overcome your dark side, your are active learner.Never assume you know everything.you need to remember that there is always someone better than you and you should always be trying to improve.
I might have missed lot more ....will cont if i find more in mine thoughts...enjoy life fullest, always keep positive outlook, you will succeed surely.
I know, sounds little weired but it turned out to be interesting exercise.
I am trying to recollect my images into words ..:)
now i come up with some analogy like this:
** GOALS [ planning future] : long term life goal- key to survival so no point of playing the game without this.Before you decide to make a move, think a few steps ahead. Ask “what if …?” and try to anticipate the possible outcomes of your actions.Don’t aimlessly push your pawns without a plan. In life, this is the foundation of all planning exercises.
**ADAPTION: Darwins theory: "adaption is most important for any survival".
This requires an open mind and the willingness to adapt to changes.
**SACRIFICES: Sometimes you need to give up some of your smaller assets to achieve bigger milestones later in the game.
**TEMPTATION: this reminds me of "chocalates":) too temptating rite...Your Dark Side always try to tempt you for small offers which can ruin the game for you, don't fall for these..keep in mind Always be focussed on your long term objectives.
**POSITIVE OUTLOOK: always pplay the game with positive frame of mind and play to conquror the dark side.if you can define the pace of the game you will always in control of it.
**ACTIVE LEARNING: famous quote it reminds me:"your enemy is your greatest teacher" ..
Each step to overcome your dark side, your are active learner.Never assume you know everything.you need to remember that there is always someone better than you and you should always be trying to improve.
I might have missed lot more ....will cont if i find more in mine thoughts...enjoy life fullest, always keep positive outlook, you will succeed surely.
Monday, April 20, 2009
~~ Ultimate in Romance ~~
Just wondering "whats ultimate romance means to you??"
* Candle lite dinner
* Long Drive
* Walking on beach bearfooted...
* Long talks
list will keep going, everyone has its own taste of romance.
i will try to describe in general....
"The most romantic gesture is when a woman/man notices his/her partner is uncomfortable in a crowded room and without uttering a word he/she goes across and puts his arm around her. Not a single word spoken, but everything said by that gesture..."
i thing, if someone can understand this, you do'nt have to worry for rest of your life...:)
* Candle lite dinner
* Long Drive
* Walking on beach bearfooted...
* Long talks
list will keep going, everyone has its own taste of romance.
i will try to describe in general....
"The most romantic gesture is when a woman/man notices his/her partner is uncomfortable in a crowded room and without uttering a word he/she goes across and puts his arm around her. Not a single word spoken, but everything said by that gesture..."
i thing, if someone can understand this, you do'nt have to worry for rest of your life...:)
Monday, April 13, 2009
~~ 21 truth of life [life phases] ~~
how many do you follow ..??? ;)
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live Life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'God bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX.. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live Life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'God bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson .
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
~~ Cute sweet luv story ~~~
I just encounter an luv which touches the heart.
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully...
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully...
Saturday, April 4, 2009
~~ Software Professional Vs Doctors [insite about marriage ] ~~
I am struggling to find the answer, why software professional
can't marry an doc ???
This is what i feel about YES Software Profession can[should] marry Docs.
Both are equally intelligent, great thinker and professionally sounded
in there respective fields.To me compatibility will be awesomely same as
doc and doc or software and software :)
Someone has said these quotes[by a doc]:
'docs start "really" earning at a considerably older age while engineers start at a younger age so it's a case of helping each other in the times of distress & need....in the beginning of their careers docs need all kinds of support(emotional + financial) which another aspiring doc can't provide most of the times as he's in emotional & financial riot himself so it's better to go for someone who's already in a better position than you are to fulfill all ur needs + once you have achieved your dreams you would be sure that your soulmate has been with you in times when u weren't anybody or anything & still they stayed at your side...it also spares you from getting paranoid later on when u are where u wanted to be that every1 around you is only b/c u r someone when u know he was there with u when u had nothing & he had everything!.....but in the end....it's the luv of your life that you find,not planning to fall for a doc or an engineer but you just do...'
But always believe "Matches are made in Heaven" ....
*** Its just mine thoughts as always, mine feeling****
can't marry an doc ???
This is what i feel about YES Software Profession can[should] marry Docs.
Both are equally intelligent, great thinker and professionally sounded
in there respective fields.To me compatibility will be awesomely same as
doc and doc or software and software :)
Someone has said these quotes[by a doc]:
'docs start "really" earning at a considerably older age while engineers start at a younger age so it's a case of helping each other in the times of distress & need....in the beginning of their careers docs need all kinds of support(emotional + financial) which another aspiring doc can't provide most of the times as he's in emotional & financial riot himself so it's better to go for someone who's already in a better position than you are to fulfill all ur needs + once you have achieved your dreams you would be sure that your soulmate has been with you in times when u weren't anybody or anything & still they stayed at your side...it also spares you from getting paranoid later on when u are where u wanted to be that every1 around you is only b/c u r someone when u know he was there with u when u had nothing & he had everything!.....but in the end....it's the luv of your life that you find,not planning to fall for a doc or an engineer but you just do...'
But always believe "Matches are made in Heaven" ....
*** Its just mine thoughts as always, mine feeling****
Saturday, March 21, 2009
~ Jingles-- bachpan ki yaadien ~~
Bachpan ki kuch yaadein :)
Cadbury
Kuch Khaas hai Hum Sabhi mein
Kuch Baat hai Hum sabhi mein...
Khaas hai..
Baat hai..
Kya swaad hai...
Zindagi mein...
Asian Paints
Yeh tera ghar ye mera ghar..
hamara ghar ye pyara ghar..
deewar aise khil uthe..
lage kisi ki naa nazar
asian paints....
Bajaj---Luv this
Jab mein chotta bachha tha..
bardhi sharat karta tha...
meri chori pakdi jaati....
jab roshan hota bajaj
Abb mein bilkul boodha hun..
goli kha key jeeta hun...
phir bhi chori padki jaati...
jab roshan hota bajaj...
Hamdard
Yeh bechaara, kaam ke bojh ka maara!! (he faints)
Inhein chaahiye Hamdard Ka Cinkara
Hamdard ka tonic, Cinkara!...
Cadbury
Kuch Khaas hai Hum Sabhi mein
Kuch Baat hai Hum sabhi mein...
Khaas hai..
Baat hai..
Kya swaad hai...
Zindagi mein...
Asian Paints
Yeh tera ghar ye mera ghar..
hamara ghar ye pyara ghar..
deewar aise khil uthe..
lage kisi ki naa nazar
asian paints....
Bajaj---Luv this
Jab mein chotta bachha tha..
bardhi sharat karta tha...
meri chori pakdi jaati....
jab roshan hota bajaj
Abb mein bilkul boodha hun..
goli kha key jeeta hun...
phir bhi chori padki jaati...
jab roshan hota bajaj...
Hamdard
Yeh bechaara, kaam ke bojh ka maara!! (he faints)
Inhein chaahiye Hamdard Ka Cinkara
Hamdard ka tonic, Cinkara!...
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
~ Women day special ~
I don't know what it is but she drives me crazy
I don't know what she does but she drives me wild
If only she could let me be the man I wanna be
Well she can leave me helpless as a child
I don't know how it is but she has the power
She can make me laugh when I wanna cry (oh yeah)
She tells me that I'm in control but I know it's just a lie
And I don't mind oh
Will she love you tomorrow like she loves you today
She can keep your heart guessing but she's yours if she stays
And that's what it feels like
To have a woman
To love a woman ..........
I don't know what she does but she drives me wild
If only she could let me be the man I wanna be
Well she can leave me helpless as a child
I don't know how it is but she has the power
She can make me laugh when I wanna cry (oh yeah)
She tells me that I'm in control but I know it's just a lie
And I don't mind oh
Will she love you tomorrow like she loves you today
She can keep your heart guessing but she's yours if she stays
And that's what it feels like
To have a woman
To love a woman ..........
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
~ Someone writely said :) ~~
l Find a girl who calls you baby faced instead of hot or sexy.
l Who can't stand it when you hang up on her and calls right back
l Who would sit there for hours looking into your eyes
l Who doesn't care what you look like, but what's inside counts the most.
l Who looks at you with the twinkle in her eyes and kisses you on the cheek instead of the lips.
l Wants to be with you in public, even if you wear those old grass stained and ripped pants with the bleached jersey like always.
l Wait for the girl who is a constant reminder of your happiness and joy
l Who makes you smile just by knowing she loves you back.
l Wait for the girl who you give piggy back rides to in public and she still is in view of her friends, while she gets off and you hear her go: "you're the one for me, for always".
l Who can't stand it when you hang up on her and calls right back
l Who would sit there for hours looking into your eyes
l Who doesn't care what you look like, but what's inside counts the most.
l Who looks at you with the twinkle in her eyes and kisses you on the cheek instead of the lips.
l Wants to be with you in public, even if you wear those old grass stained and ripped pants with the bleached jersey like always.
l Wait for the girl who is a constant reminder of your happiness and joy
l Who makes you smile just by knowing she loves you back.
l Wait for the girl who you give piggy back rides to in public and she still is in view of her friends, while she gets off and you hear her go: "you're the one for me, for always".
Sunday, March 1, 2009
~ The OM ~
OM words spells with 'AUM', which signifies in Hindu Methology:
A stands for Creation [ BRAHMA]
U stands for Preservation [VISHNU]
M stands for Destruction or dissolution [ SHIVA]
The three letters also indicates three planes of existence, heaven (swarga), earth (martya) and netherworld (patala)
All the words produced by the human vocal organ can be represented by AUM. A is produced by the throat, U & M by the lips
In the Vedas, AUM is the sound of the Sun, the sound of Light. It is the sound of assent (affirmation) and ascent (it has an upwards movement and uplifts the soul, as the sound of the divine eagle or falcon.
Regular chanting of ''OM'', not only brings positive attitude to life, but same time inner peace.
It control 'Anger' and gives you feeling of peace.
I regularly use, these words, really brings 'wisdom' or u can say positive thoughts to me.
but you as a person are the best judge, what it good for you.
I recommend, try chanting anytime in day, surly brings GOOD to you.
Thanks MOM :)
Saturday, February 7, 2009
~ 'No' Quit Word ~
When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high and you want to smile , but you have to cry ,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
rest if you must, but don't you quit!
You can never tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit!
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high and you want to smile , but you have to cry ,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
rest if you must, but don't you quit!
You can never tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit!
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Promise of Lifetime
Will You help me fall apart
Pick me up, take me in Your arms
Find my way back from the storm
And You show me how to grow
Through the change .....
How true this is....?
Pick me up, take me in Your arms
Find my way back from the storm
And You show me how to grow
Through the change .....
How true this is....?
WhY wOmEn BoRn tO bE lOvEd ...
After reading an article, feels like i should write something about it,
really touches to your heart. I think i could explain with a little story
below, "ALL Women Born to be loved "
A little boy asked his mother:"Why are you crying?"
"Because I am a woman."She told him.
"I don't understand"he said.
His mum just hugged him and said:"And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father:"Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All woman cry for no reason."Was all his dad could say.
The little boy grow up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God, when God got on the phone, he asked,"God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said:"When I made the women, she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her inner strength to endure childbirth, and the rejections many times comes from her children.
I gave her hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complains.
"I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even her children has hurt her very badly.
"I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart."
"I gave her the wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strength and resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly."
"And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. That is her exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see the beauty of a women is not the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair."
"The beauty of a women must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where the love resides."
really touches to your heart. I think i could explain with a little story
below, "ALL Women Born to be loved "
A little boy asked his mother:"Why are you crying?"
"Because I am a woman."She told him.
"I don't understand"he said.
His mum just hugged him and said:"And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father:"Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All woman cry for no reason."Was all his dad could say.
The little boy grow up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God, when God got on the phone, he asked,"God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said:"When I made the women, she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her inner strength to endure childbirth, and the rejections many times comes from her children.
I gave her hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complains.
"I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even her children has hurt her very badly.
"I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart."
"I gave her the wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strength and resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly."
"And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. That is her exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see the beauty of a women is not the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair."
"The beauty of a women must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where the love resides."
Monday, January 19, 2009
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